COMING HOME

Hey there! Welcome to Ellasfield! I'm thrilled to introduce myself—I'm Kim. Like many, I faced challenges early in life and struggled to see the world positively. However, a glimmer of hope began in my Nan's Sussex garden. My Nan, affectionately known as Bobby, was a kitchen witch, quietly sharing her magic only with family. We moved into her Keymer home when I was five years old after my mum left my dad and my grandfather experienced a sudden heart attack. This transition brought sadness and upheaval, leaving three women to navigate grief and hidden ancestral secrets. I felt it all but didn't know how to process it, internalising a tremendous monster for nearly three decades. The birth of my daughter at the age of thirty transformed my life, pushing me to confront my past. This journey has inspired me to build a strong connection with the land and the wonders around us—the trees, the plants, and every creature we share this beautiful planet with. I can't wait to share this journey with you!

Over the past twenty-two years, I have immersed myself in a magical myriad of disciplines that bring depth and richness to life. My extensive training and initiation as a Shamanic Practitioner, along with my experience as a Mindfulness-based Teacher and Coach, Yoga Teacher, Reiki Master, Facilitator of Equine-Assisted Personal Development, and Complementary Animal Practitioner, have equipped me with a powerful toolkit for transformation. These skills uniquely shape and heighten my sessions, ensuring compassionate and meaningful experiences for those I work with.

Over the last two decades, my heart has opened; I've realised that a significant source of 'dis-ease' and discontent comes from feeling disconnected—from the land and ourselves. That's why I've decided to blend all my skills and create a warm, welcoming space where you can reconnect with your inner wise woman. This part of you has always been there, even when societal pressures and the constant noise of media and the internet try to distract us from the truth of who we are. I understand that my inner feelings profoundly reflect what manifests in my life. By shifting my perspective, I've forged meaningful connections with my children and the beautiful people and animals around me.

If you're unsure where to begin and are new to this, don't worry—you're definitely not alone! Many of my clients have felt the same way at first, and it's exactly how I felt over twenty years ago until I found an empathetic guide to support my 'Hero's quest'!. As soon as you step through the door, you'll feel the love and compassion in the air, and I promise you will quickly feel right at home. We need three essential things to find peace in our hearts and truly live out our passions and dreams— which may have been sitting quietly for a while. The basics, like food, shelter, and rest, are essential, but we also need a nurturing and supportive environment. Incorporating the holding of the land, cacao's energy, our horses' loving presence, and my open-hearted facilitation, we co-create the perfect conditions for incredible healing to blossom. The following list is the foundation of all we offer here as a team ~

Safety and Emotional Security: Feeling safe and secure is essential for emotional wellness, enabling us to thrive without the weight of anxiety or fear. Our natural state is one of calm and grounding. It's important to remember that anxiety is a temporary detour from this state. As we learn to observe our sensations and emotions, we create space for ourselves and find relief from feeling overwhelmed. Many clients express that being here "feels like coming home," This serves is a potent reminder of the comfort we strive to provide.

Connection and Belonging: Humans crave connection and a sense of community. When we cultivate self-love and kindness, our relationships and self-esteem flourish. Engaging with a community of horses and the land nurtures this sense of belonging, reinforcing our bond and point to life.

Self-Belief and Validation: Being heard within our community fosters feelings of value and inclusion. Support from others enhances our self-belief and empowers us to express our thoughts and emotions freely. Through our work with horses and participation in community events, we create a safe space where self-belief can thrive.

BOLDLY SHINE YOUR LIGHT INTO THE WORLD! Embrace your unique light and share it confidently, knowing you are never alone on this journey.

At Ellasfield, you will discover radical honesty and unfiltered authenticity. My personal healing journey has completely transformed my approach to life, shifting me from a victim mentality to embracing the role of a joyful creator of my own reality. I now have love in my heart and deep compassion and understanding as I recognise the challenges we all face. My metamorphosis truly feels like a miracle.

Once upon a time, I was consumed by fear, anger, and disillusionment with the world. However, the trauma of my daughter's birth became the catalyst for profound change. Facing her brain injury thrust me into unknown territory, shattering any sense of safety in the systems we are raised to trust. From this ground zero, I had to return to the basics. I literally had to tenderly hold all the fear, anger, and resentment bubbling inside me in order to rediscover the innocent, sweet little Kim who once had fewer opportunities to shine.

I never imagined my outlook on life could change so profoundly. Yet, here I am, playful and overjoyed to share everything I've learned with as many people as possible while I'm alive and kicking!

If you are ready to embark on a transformative journey that sweetens your experience of the world, now is the perfect moment to open your heart to the love and beauty around you, releasing feelings of darkness and despair. I invite you to schedule a brief phone call to discover how my horses and I can support you. Together, we can uncover and let go of the burdens that have lingered too long and nurture a new connection that fosters healing, joy, and a profound bond with nature.

I collaborate with individuals who are starting out on a commitment to themselves and who are serious about making positive changes in their lives this year. Our relationship is built on the idea that by meeting spirit halfway, we can find guidance and support together. Through my connection with the land and my horses, I've developed a unique approach incorporating the principles I live and breathe. Take a read and see if this resonates with your soul:

'Horses and Hearts' Session One

Step one:

Join us in the Yurt Temple for a powerful Cacao Ceremony, where you will delve into your emotions, craft meaningful intentions, and gain clarity on your focus during this transformative time. Together, we will create heartfelt intentions that resonate with your true self. Allow me to guide you through ancient shamanic practices that will empower you to release old patterns and ancestral burdens. You can confidently continue this personal journey at home through accessible kundalini practices shared with you. As we navigate this process, you'll experience profound shifts in perception, awakening to the realisation that many limitations and blocks are not based on truth but are rooted in ancestral fear and trauma.

Step Two:

Discover the life-changing experience of one-on-one sessions with horses, where their deep wisdom unfolds in a caring and supportive environment. These sessions focus on connecting with your heart and finding your true self. You'll learn to understand the horses' messages through their body language and the gentle sounds of nature around you. Every moment invites you to embrace kindness and transformation, guiding you toward a deeper understanding of yourself.

Step Three:

Escape to your private sauna, where a stunning view of the paddocks creates the perfect backdrop for relaxation. Take a moment to unwind, bask in the tranquillity, and allow yourself time to integrate your morning before reentering your day, feeling rejuvenated and grounded. Savour a warm cup of herbal tea with a slice of homemade cake. You can relax and enjoy these delightful treats before we close with a 'Fire Ceremony' and heartfelt farewells.

Exchange:

4 hours ~ £350

If you want to schedule a quick phone chat or check availability, please text 07990 511250 or email ellasfield@icloud.com.